2015年5月11日星期一

I felt I got free again

 Now most people live in apartments, in which we don't know our neighbour in most cases. Everyday when we come out from our own door ,we see all the other  doors in the building are close.We don't know who Hong Kong Festival the neighbours are . Someone misses  the close relationship of neighbours in the yard at past. I think making friends with your neighbour may be not good experient after I knew one of my neighbours.

      Two years ago, a new family moved in the rooms next to mine.They were parents and a boy, as same as my family.We knew  each other at the children playing space .We were all excited when we find we are next door .Two boys were  very happy.And then,the hostess and I often walked,went shopping ,had dinner together.Everthing was  good between us ;at the beginning. But gradually,I  was beset with the close relationship.One day when I was busy with my work,my neighbour knocked at my door . I opend the door ,she came in and sit down at the sofa.She just wanted to chat with me.I didn't expect she would leave after 5 hours!I lost my time.Since that day ,I didn't feel safe in my own room.I were afraid her coming without invitition once again.I really had no free time to chat wth her.After a few months ,I found  the worse thing .One day she told  me :"Your husband seems coming home very late recently.Is he very busy?" I felt terrible when I realized she can Cloud Email hear our door slam and judge our life.Would she heard us when I quarrel with my husband?Since then ,I speaked in a low voice  so as not to be overheard.I felt that  I lived next to a detective!

      A few days ago,my neighbour moved away.I felt I got free again.

     Maybe in this age we don't like too  close relationship with other people any more .we need maintainning  privacy.


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